How to Have Good Manners

Meat makes and clothes shapes but a manner makes a man.


In order to present a good impression to others, you need to act like you weren't raised in a barn! It is very difficult to deal with people that have no manners or have no concern for others. One of the biggest societal issues we face today is a general lack of respect for what has been taught in history in regards to human concern and compassion for those you do not know well.


"Good Manners" are indeed an increasingly archaic school of ideas and actions that display respect, care, and consideration. All humans have a basic right to help one another and feel positive about themselves and others around them. In our age of self-satisfaction, cell phone technology and instant internet gratification - it is sometimes hypothesized that we care more for our equipment and high tech gadgets than the very people they are made for.

If you don't have an etiquette resource, you should keep reading for more ideas. Consider picking up an etiquette book. There are many available. Some community colleges offer weekend lessons in etiquette and most are open to all ages. Taking a class is a great idea for teens, professionals or anyone looking to make a better impression.

If, instead, you would rather learn from real-world examples - study the positive effects of those who display good manners and how people react to and around them. It's basic common sense that everyone prefers to be treated with a reasonable amount of respect. If you nurture plants, animals, or other humans, not only will they grow and bloom - but you will as well. Outside of material goods - the basic things we all really own in life are ourselves and our actions.

Steps:
1) Think things out before you speak.
2) Don't speak loudly
3) Always respect older people.
4) Do not swear
5) Don't interrupt, cut off or override


Improve your manners when speaking.


* Never say "Yeah". It's "Yes" or preferably "Yes, please".
* It's never "Huh?" or "What?", it's "Pardon?"
* Instead of "Nah", say "No, thank you."
* Always use "May I...?" instead of "Can I?"


Manners are little rules that help us all act with respect toward one another. If you are unsure what to do in a particular situation, remember that manners strive to make everyone around you feel comfortable, and take action based on this thought.


Good manners will never go out of style, so practice having good manners. It can only help you in the long run.