Tuesday, November 18, 2008

WHY ARE WE INSENSETIVE

today when we c a person falling we normally laugh.Have we ever thought y v do so ?there are so many reasons but none ov the reason support the idea ov being insensetive.one ov the reason that i feel has changed our minds is the security unstability in our country.ther are so many blasts attack now days that we being a human now just take it as a daily news.we just pass comments and evaluate the case our selves and than v switch the channel.i personally feel that media nodoubt is keeping us inform but the way its portraying the whole pitcure has compelled us to b insensetive.
I stll remember when these attacks started i didnt slept for many days and i really felt insecure,but now seriously i dnt even give it a thought.I feel we need to restore our feelings for others which v have losted i do have some ideas but i want u guys to suggest me some practices which can help us to do so.
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5 comments:

bahawalshahryar said...

The feeling of pain for others has no doubt been killed by media's focus and dramatisation of such events and this focus has not been out of sympathy for the victims but has been backed by ulterior profit motives which trigger the news channels to commercialise such incidents for capturing the largest audience.

WHAT WE CAN DO?
We can sit back alone for a while and ponder over the cruelities taking place around us. We may not be able to do sthng about it but atleast we can reinforce our feelings and establish a clear understanding about the reasons and propagators of such events.

November 19, 2008 at 3:17 AM
Zahir Shah said...

9/11, the tradegy that not only left Americans in shock but more than anything else we in this part of the world had to bear the aftershocks. Even 2day i remember how much frightened i was far in the valleys of the karakarum. And then a series of attacks and blasts did the job to make me use to a voilence...

The point is our thinking, feelings, value etc. are shaped by our socialization and we have been, unfortunately, part of a society with voilence around. Isensitivity is thus natural to us.
Getting woried about our behavior thus comes to our circle of concern and what we need to do is focus on our circle of influence that can include practice of value-based life, to try and think of the box and be proactive in our actions and focus on spreading the idea in our company( which you have done), thus making it a team issue. This approach might take time but afterall we have to change the thinking patteren.

November 19, 2008 at 4:27 AM
Waqas Nasir Butt said...

yes it is true that we people are not sincere with our society. it is easy for laugh at others.we put all the things as a joke.
Pakistan is a peaceful country.we all love our country,our people,our culture;it is hard for us to see our brother or sister in a horrible condition.but we cannot stop terrorism now its becomes a global issue.
our system is worsening time by time i think we have to take an initiative to change our system.
first thing we have to do it is to change ourself,change our mind, be a role model for the society.if we are proactive then we can do any thing.may it take some time but in the end ball is in our court.

November 20, 2008 at 5:48 AM
Fatima Arif said...

I think that what we need to do is that shift the issue of insensitivity from our circle of concern to our circle of influence..as this issue is connected to terrorism which further revolves around the Muslim community...so if being a part of this community we show some proactive attitude & market our religion & country in its true sense we will be able to turn this planet into a much better place.

November 20, 2008 at 6:15 AM
Zain Ashraf said...

i think u need to wait for the time when these bomb blasts and terrorism ends. once this ends, u'll see that ur feelings will start restoring.
sometimes excess of something makes u feel uninterested.
once eveythinz ok and everyone is in peace (which i hope will, inshallah) , and then if something bad like this happens; it will gain ur attention again and ul feel the same way u used to feel before.

November 21, 2008 at 9:19 AM

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